Ask a real estate pro: Is it a good idea to buy a starter home with my boyfriend?
Q: My boyfriend and I want to move in together but cannot find an affordable rental that allows pets. With interest rates and prices inching down, we are thinking about buying a starter home. We both have good jobs and strong credit. My mom reads your column and suggested I ask if this is a good idea. Thanks! — Rita
A: I cannot say if it is a good idea because I have not met your significant other, but with proper planning, buying property together can work out well.
Whenever people who are not married to each other buy property together, I recommend drafting a written agreement that outlines what each of you will be responsible for and discussing what happens if you break up.
This is especially important if one of you is providing more down payment than the other. Should your relationship sour, having an agreement in place will make dealing with the property easier and less costly.
The process of preparing a co-ownership agreement can also help set you up for success. Among other details, you will need to discuss who is responsible for the costs and maintenance and what happens if one of you has a career setback or falls ill and cannot pay their share.